About Me

 Hello Mama, my name is Tiffany. Im a 30 year old black women that decided to become a single mother by choice. I made the decision to become a SMBC in 2022. I was in a very tumultuous relationship that lasted 8 years and took up all of my 20’s. I was diagnosed with PCOS in 2018, i already knew I had it but it was confirmed that year. In my previous relationship I had never fallen pregnant and just contributed  it to stress being unhealthy. I was wasn’t in the headspace at that time to be a parent and i just thought that when I got ready things would just happen. After that relationship ended I started a business, began to travel and really started to live my life. I had always wanted to become a mother and decided that I didn’t want to let anymore time pass me by. I know plenty of single moms and they were amazing. I found a fertility clinic in my area and began the process. I found out that because of my PCOS I had a higher AMH which meant I had plenty of eggs and all my number everywhere else had been amazing. What I wasn’t expecting to hear is that my tubes were blocked. I was devastated. I had all the materials to make a baby I was just missing 1 ingredient. I was cleared to start IVF, found a fertility loan lender and went for it. My egg retrieval went amazing, 30 eggs were retrieved and 20 of them made it to be fertilized and frozen. Ecstatic, I was ready for my transfer. Unfortunately my first transfer didn’t take. Again I was devastated and heartbroken. I was totally expecting to go into 2023 pregnant. Most transfers don’t take on the first try. And to be honest this was the first time I had ever intentionally tried to become pregnant. Still I pressed on lost 30lbs and scheduled my next transfer for the following April. This time i kept it a complete secret from all of my family and friends, like I planned on doing the first time. It worked and I became pregnant with my son Ryan. And now here I am happy as a clam with the sweetest, kind and loving child that I could ever ask for.