Whew this one threw me for a loop 😂 before making the decision to do IVF I wasn’t really dating or even trying to meet anyone. I decided that I wanted to be celibate and focus on myself, my health and my business.
As I got closer and closer to starting my cycle I decided that I just wanted to focus on myself and the reality that soon I would be pregnant and somebody’s mom.
Of course things always happen when you least expect them too. And this is no different.
I was introduced to a guy in the most obscure way. He has no social media, no dating apps and he doesn’t even live in the same city as me. My aunt saw him in Walmart and thought he looked good and literally started chatting him up and mentioned me 😅 we exchanged info , went in a date and it’s been absolutely amazing.
Literally like a movie , lol. I made the decision to tell him about my decision to do IVF and become a single mother by choice. Because of the way we are so transparent with each other and the fact that my baselines are literally on Monday.
His response was “ well if this works out then I’ll guess I’ll be a dad.
I forgot to mention that he doesn’t have kids 😏
It’s very early on , and as of right now we are just dating and having fun (not exclusive) but this connection is very different from any other relationship that I’ve ever had and I am very optimistic about how and where it is going to go 🥹
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